Saturday, June 25, 2016

Spooky assistance

My new cat Spooky (new to me, he's adopted and three years old) has been with me for almost four months now and finally his personality is really starting to show. After a rocky start as scaredy cat and getting to know his new surroundings and me especially he is now really starting to blossom as a cat. It's a wonderful process to witness and I'm so glad I gave him the time to come around on his own and not force anything.

He's not a cat that follows me around all day, but when he's in the mood he is really affectionate and he loves to be petted from time to time. His favorite affectionate move is head butting my face over and over again. It makes me melt I have to tell you. :-)

The first months he didn't play at all, but in the last few weeks he seems to be finding his inner kitten again and is having so much fun with the toys I got him and that I was afraid he would never touch.

He's made a cat friend (also a black one, but with white socks) in the neighbourhood and watching them together is so adorable. They even have a mutual enemy and Spooky will come home from time to time with battle scars. He really is a street mongrel sometimes.

He goes outside almost every night and ever so once in a while will deem me good enough to keep me company on my bed, but in general outside nightly adventures are way more interesting. However when he is home for the night he loves to crawl all the way into the curve of my neck and its sounds like a hive of bees is sleeping next to my face for all the humming and buzzing he does.

When I'm home and relaxing during the day he often likes to lay beside me on the couch or sort of half on my lap like this:


His body is mostly on the couch, but his front paws and his head or on me. That way I am in petting position. He especially likes doing that when I'm reading.

Other times a leg hug is enough contact:


This makes me smile. It's the ultimate 'you're mine' gesture. :-)

And of course he is also starting to be a better (read 'more intrusive') assistant. He will often try to help me with my Morning Book or sit on my sketchbooks when I'm trying to take a  picture of them for my blog or Instagram/Facebook. That leads to situations like these:

"No need to finish a drawing, a handsome Spook makes everything complete."

"Hey let me help you colour code those markers!"

"I'm smug because I'm being such a great assistant."

"You'd better be journaling about me!"

"All mandalas look better with a cat promoting them."

"I'm a supermodel. Just forget about that sketchbook."
After four months I think it's safe to say that Spooky has found his forever home and is very much enjoying it. I love him to death, maybe even more so because I really had to win his trust and affection. He still is scared of strange humans, I think that's never going to really stop, but that's okay with me as long as he seems healthy and happy and trusts me enough to get in my way, haha.

As a matter of fact, if you find strange typos in this post it's because he walked across the keyboard of my laptop at least six times since I started typing, one time even making this post disappear and me worried that I had lost the whole thing (luckily blogger autosaves everything). That's a truly  dedicated assistant for you!

Wishing you all a wonderful and artsy weekend.

14 comments:

  1. What a touching post about you and Spooky bonding. He sounds like he has found his forever home and is even willing and able to pose for artsy pictures! The humming and buzzing sounds hopefully put you to sleep by now. And the leg hug, I'm jealous.
    Kristen

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    1. The humming and buzzing is absolutely adorable, but on warm nights (it is summer after all) such a big amount of fur in your neck can be quite sweaty. But I just don't have the heart to shove him aside. :-)

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  2. Leuk te lezen dat jullie nu een (h)echt 'team' vormen en dat hij zoveel vreugde bij je brengt , dierenliefde is zo oprecht ! Ik wens jullie nog heel veel fijne 'avonturen' !

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    1. Dank je wel, dat gaat vast lukken. :-)

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  3. awwww....I love your story about your nice kitty. I am so glad to hear about a rescue animal having a happy, safe home. I admire you for adopting him. We have five adopted/saved cats and five who were born to one of the adopted/saved cats! One, named Black Kitty, looks just like your new cat. Black Kitty is my special pet. He follows me around everywhere I go, if I have a door closed, he is sitting outside the door waiting for me to come out of that room. (I have a few rooms no cats are allowed in). Well, keep us posted about your Spooky boy. It is fun to read about him in your life!

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    1. I think I will always adopt, although this is the first time I adopted straight from another person instead of through a shelter. Your Black Kitty sounds a lot like my previous cat Peer who was practically glued to me 24/7. I love how all cats have their own personality.

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  4. Awwww, this is such a sweet post. I'm so glad to read that Spooky is coming along nicely and adjusting. He seems to be helping in the process of mending your broken heart, and you are helping his too. I'm so happy for you both......Linda E. P.S. I received your lovely card a while back. Thank you, and I'm sorry I haven't sent you one yet. I'm struggling with severe headaches, daily, and not sleeping very well. Hopefully, I will get a break soon and feel well enough to make and send you a card too.

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    1. Oh Linda, please don't worry about that. I don't send my cards in order to receive some, I just like them to go somewhere where they are appreciated. Sorry things aren't going well for you and I hope you feel better soon. Hugs.

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  5. So happy for you and Spooky. Loved the post.
    Barb
    USA

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    1. Thank you, I'm quite happy for us too. I never would have expected things to turn out so well after those first neurotic weeks. ;-)

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  6. Fijn dat het nu zo goed gaat met Spooky.

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    1. Dank je wel, ik ben er ook heel blij mee (en hij geloof ik ook wel, haha).

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  7. So glad Spooky is coming around and showing his real self! He looks like he's enjoying your company too!!!

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    1. Yes, after his fearful start he is really becoming a 'normal' cat as in one who likes to be in the way of what you are doing. A lot! ;-)

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